Falling in love, such a mushy, yet at the same time wonderful feeling, isn’t it? It is the type of thing that brings about poems, films, paintings, books, and of course, never ending amounts of songs…
And let’s be honest, if anyone says they never want to have that feeling, they’re just lying to themselves. They’re lying. It’s such a huge part of living life, you haven’t truly lived or breathed, until you get those feeling of butterflies in your stomach, the world suddenly feeling wonderful to you, and the natural high of being happy.
But how do you deal with it, may you ask? Well, allow me to use yet another one of Nicky Priest’s lists to explain, be patient, please…
- First thing’s first, you need to prepare for when you do find the right person eventually, one area you need to be on top with is your self-esteem, things such as being confident & walking with you back up straight when you do walk down the street, learning to love & be kind to yourself, and never EVER comparing yourself to other people. Appearing to be confident to other people tends to be a very attractive trait to them.
- Consider the type of person you want to be with. Don’t create the ideal personality for whom you want to meet as that person wouldn’t exist in real life, but you can look to try and meet someone who has a fair amount in common with you, such as sense of humor, level of kindness, taste in music, etc.
- Meet people. You’re going to need to do this if you want to meet the person you end up falling in love with. This could be achieved by going out drinking, joining a book club, working out at the gym, etc.
- This is the most important thing on this list in my viewpoint: GIVE THINGS TIME! You need to be patient, as finding the right person can take years in some people’s cases, even if you don’t fall in love with someone you meet straight away, over time, your feelings can change for that person, and also, it proves that person has depth, which is a great human quality to possess.
So that’s my list on what to do to be prepared for when you fall in love. I don’t think I’ll have any problem getting any women swooning over me, because I am a great guy, right ladies? Err… right? Right…? Ladies…?